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Despite sweeping government programs, tens of billions of dollars in social spending, and massive social lookinh in the name of sexual equality, you only have to glance through a newspaper or switch on the news to be subject to a litany of gloomy statistics about today's women: We are more likely to be divorced or never married at all than women of generations.
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But all too often they are treated as a hundred distinct issues. Had it made women any happier?
For if we, as women, were all Naughty wife want real sex El Paso sit down and honestly attempt to figure out what sort of lives would make us happy, I suspect -- assuming the basics like food and adequate income and leaving aside fantasies of riches and celebrity -- that most of our answers would be very similar to one another's, and quite different from men's.
If so, do these divisions make us "unequal"? As they listened to me, first with bafflement, then with irritation, and finally with anger, I thought of an apparatchik I'd met in Slovakia shortly after the collapse of Communism in Eastern Europe.